I'm a few days behind, but trying to catch up.
WL10255XP is the one I went with last. It's a hair smaller than the 57045, but I got it because of the higher bypass pressure.
57045-
Height: 4.828"
OD: 2.939"
Bypass: 12-15 PSI
10255-
Height: 4.474"
OD: 2.921"
Bypass: 22 PSI
I fill up the filter. Let it soak in, top it off again, soak, etc. I also pour some on top and press the silicone flap down at various spots through the holes with a tiny Torx driver to get oil on that side of the media faster. This ensures 100% saturation and passes more time to let the pan drain.