Something that can get you by for a little bit (I think, someone else please confirm) is keeping the vehicle in m5 whenever you drive it. (After you get your lifter released). It won’t activate AFM and will get you down the road without having to spend $200 on a disabler right now.
I cut my gaskets on my VLOM to make it so AFM physically could not activate, even if for some reason it tried to with my disabler. This was secondary insurance, along with the Crazed Performance release kit that has a plug for the VLOM to block the oil passages
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