No, she's just trying to set me up for something. I do it all by the book, document everything, keep my lawyer in the loop, call when there is a violation of DVI etc. I keep getting messages in regards to "lost" mail. I've turned over all mail. You'd think they would have specific mail sent to a specific address, but then they couldn't blame me for taking mail, which I've never seen or would ever take. It's tiresome.
Woman took my car... civil issue... trying to get it back
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No, she's just trying to set me up for something. I do it all by the book, document everything, keep my lawyer in the loop, call when there is a violation of DVI etc. I keep getting messages in regards to "lost" mail. I've turned over all mail. You'd think they would have specific mail sent to a specific address, but then they couldn't blame me for taking mail, which I've never seen or would ever take. It's tiresome.
Well shit. For some reason I quit getting notifications for a couple days and boy oh boy did I miss a LOT. Nice you got the truck back but like I figured, it’s just the start, especially since there’s a kid involved. I’ve had my share of crazies, every woman I’ve been in a long term with has turned out to be one. I gave up after the last one, had to have her removed from my house by the police. She has 2 daughters, not by me, and she kept them both from me but the oldest turned 18 about 6 months after we split and she moved in with me. I’m the only dad she’s ever known, I started dating her mom when she was 9 and she had only seen her biological dad once or twice in her life. He moved halfway across the country right after she was born. Her youngest daughter was never allowed to see me and has turned out really bad, drop out, ******, homeless, etc. The other I consider to be my daughter, and she calls me her dad. She is the first to graduate not only HS but has a college degree, and currently going to school to be a nurse. So good things can happen, you just have to do what you can. I have a feeling you’re going to get custody and be a great dad.
Thanks, sounds like you already are.
Its been almost 40 days since I saw her. She's my only kid... Life is tough, kids make you love more and she brings out the best in me. The court system, is slower than I ever imagined. Doing my best to hold it together.. It's hard when I might randomly speak to her on a phone call and trying to explain to a 5 yr old that you want to see her...but have no power or choice.
Life always throws you curve balls even when you think you have it figured out.
avalonandl
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I have to wear my mask when I read this thread......
That keeps me from spitting my coffee all over the screen...
OP - Best of luck with the cray-cray ex GF
That keeps me from spitting my coffee all over the screen...
OP - Best of luck with the cray-cray ex GF
avalonandl
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Crazy axis starts at 4 because they are all a little crazy....LOL and TRUE....
Bob2C
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Just busted out laughing and my wife wants to know what I am watching. She watches with me and says. “Yep. Spot on.”
avalonandl
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Yep............
I am expecting several updates and episodes.
I am expecting several updates and episodes.
One of my Soldiers, now friend went through a similar situation. The mother/his Ex was a straight POS. The boys were developmently behind 2 years because of her neglect. 3 years and $40k later he was finally award 100% legal and total custody of them.
Hopefully, you will not have to spend that much. Sounds like she has buried herself in every possible way.......and the courts will see that with all of the evidence you and your lawyer have. Its just a waiting game right now with the virus shit.
I work in the cyber security world/domain.......its very hard to go off the grid now. IE facial recognition, bank records, internet/cellphone usage and best is the IRS with tax filings. A crafty well versed lawyer knows how to file the right paperwork.
Best of luck and hold the course man
Hopefully, you will not have to spend that much. Sounds like she has buried herself in every possible way.......and the courts will see that with all of the evidence you and your lawyer have. Its just a waiting game right now with the virus shit.
I work in the cyber security world/domain.......its very hard to go off the grid now. IE facial recognition, bank records, internet/cellphone usage and best is the IRS with tax filings. A crafty well versed lawyer knows how to file the right paperwork.
Best of luck and hold the course man
I watch biographies, true life stories etc and I used to think, why does it take so long for some of these people to get charged, arrested, held accountable etc, and now I realize it's because the system is literally this slow. I was talking to someone who investigates child neglect and she said, this woman could literally shoot you and it's not guaranteed she would lose custody of her kids. There are some broke processes in this world and I'm starting to see it. She's been well versed in this area because she's done this to her ex, but she has a major problem staying on course and she always needs to be in control, to be right and tell "her" version of the story, so it's just a matter of time before she messes up again. If I had to count the number of DVI violations, I would say it's about 15 right now. It is a bit confusing they rolled in custody/timeshare into the modified DVI, but each time I don't see my daughter, that's another violation/contempt. She'll be at least to 20 if she stops doing everything else right now before I get my day in court. My lawyer is pretty good, but he's also not cheap... $350 an hr... Hell, I thought $200 was expensive. He's worth it though. We haven't even got started and I'm almost $10k in... I assume it will be at least $20k 6-12 months from now and the way she is, that number will only go up $2-4k a yr.
Tonyrodz
Resident Resident
Hopefully the end result will be worth it. Money is no object when it comes to the safety and well being of your child. I think all of us have been where you're at to some degree. I know I've been. Sad thing is alot of courts automatically side with the woman--just because she's a woman, so it seems they have more rights then the man does.I watch biographies, true life stories etc and I used to think, why does it take so long for some of these people to get charged, arrested, held accountable etc, and now I realize it's because the system is literally this slow. I was talking to someone who investigates child neglect and she said, this woman could literally shoot you and it's not guaranteed she would lose custody of her kids. There are some broke processes in this world and I'm starting to see it. She's been well versed in this area because she's done this to her ex, but she has a major problem staying on course and she always needs to be in control, to be right and tell "her" version of the story, so it's just a matter of time before she messes up again. If I had to count the number of DVI violations, I would say it's about 15 right now. It is a bit confusing they rolled in custody/timeshare into the modified DVI, but each time I don't see my daughter, that's another violation/contempt. She'll be at least to 20 if she stops doing everything else right now before I get my day in court. My lawyer is pretty good, but he's also not cheap... $350 an hr... Hell, I thought $200 was expensive. He's worth it though. We haven't even got started and I'm almost $10k in... I assume it will be at least $20k 6-12 months from now and the way she is, that number will only go up $2-4k a yr.
That would be (personal hero, lol) Foghorn Leghorn... "Fortunately, I say Fortunately, I keep my feathers numbered for just such an emergency", said in the thick southern accent he had. "That boy is tetched, in the head".
I watch biographies, true life stories etc and I used to think, why does it take so long for some of these people to get charged, arrested, held accountable etc, and now I realize it's because the system is literally this slow. I was talking to someone who investigates child neglect and she said, this woman could literally shoot you and it's not guaranteed she would lose custody of her kids. There are some broke processes in this world and I'm starting to see it. She's been well versed in this area because she's done this to her ex, but she has a major problem staying on course and she always needs to be in control, to be right and tell "her" version of the story, so it's just a matter of time before she messes up again. If I had to count the number of DVI violations, I would say it's about 15 right now. It is a bit confusing they rolled in custody/timeshare into the modified DVI, but each time I don't see my daughter, that's another violation/contempt. She'll be at least to 20 if she stops doing everything else right now before I get my day in court. My lawyer is pretty good, but he's also not cheap... $350 an hr... Hell, I thought $200 was expensive. He's worth it though. We haven't even got started and I'm almost $10k in... I assume it will be at least $20k 6-12 months from now and the way she is, that number will only go up $2-4k a yr.
If she is found guilty or charged with neglect, you might be able to sue for legal fees. Yeah we know she won't have the money for the settlement.....but they can dock her pay the same way they will for child support once you're awarded custody.
Revenge or justice is just best served cold sometimes.
I won't even get started on my experience with the legal system. A self defense shooting cost me almost $75k with legal, travel expenses and lost wages. Its ****** ridiculous, especially as a productive member of society with a clean record and 20+ years of active federal service. Sometimes is almost appears the system protects the dirtbags rights more then those of use that do the right thing everyday and all the time.
Lol.When I read this quick the first time I thought you said His mother/his Ex.
I was thinking this has more twists and turns than any story I have ever read. I then reread it and it was just normal.
There's a TV movie in here somewhere. The crazy woman should be played by the crazy woman Alyssa Milano.
Yep, shes batshit crazy
