a few things.
- your camera has 4 wires right? (VCC/GND, SIG+/SIG-, power, ground, signal, signal ground). ?
- I think hooking up your camera that way won't work, I don't think you have all the wiring for that and I don't think your conversion harness supports it. The radios signal wires come in through the yellow RCA in that conversion harness. Even IF you had the camera wiring factory, with that harness it is not connected.. So I don't think that route will work.
- You probably want to attach a coax(for video) and power/gnd(for running it) and power it directly and run the signal directly to the radio's input.
- The radio, and camera, factory, are turned on by ignition key power, I am pretty sure the camera doesn't have anything to do with the BCM, only the radio itself (and for that only the anti theft stuff).
- What I noticed is with this "audio stuff" is that darker color wires tend to be some sort of ground and lighter ones power/signal (but I wouldn't bet anything much on that), and I'm not an expert by any means.
- also, some laptops have an RCA output, or have a cable/converter that has an RCA pigtail.
Ron