Thanks everyone, for this discussion!
I am a visual person, so I have to draw things out for my mind to see it. So out comes the handy-dandy whiteboard!
On my configuration, the only accessory load I have on the battery and alternator is a winch and LED lighting.
I also recently upgraded my e-fans from 500w to 700w.
I do want to upgrade from my 160 amp OEM alternator to one that is 220-250A to handle current load and any additional accessories I may put on my rig.
I am not planning to put on any high-output audio.
When chatting with Tony at Mechman, if I go with one of their 250 A alts, he said that I can keep everything OEM and just run a 0-gauge wire from the alt directly to the battery (no fuse). On my drawing, I indicated his suggestion with the green line.
Without considering a dual battery setup or doing the big 3, does this configuration make sense?
I am having trouble believing the two connections at the alternator are OK without the 0-gauge going through a fuse, and Tony did not really give me an answer on that. He just kept saying to leave the OEM alone and just add the 0-gauge wire from the alt to the batt.
"Just pretend you have a stock alternator and just add an additional power wire from alternator to battery post."
I am still on the fence about getting the MM or a OEM. MM seem to be better quality, but OEMs are a lower price.
Anyway, once I get this configuration figured out, I'll try to draw up something for big 3 and dual batt, and verify that everyone so I can have a visual reference.