Thanks for that. I installed a new Melling when I put mine back together, along with a new relief valve in the oil pan. It runs 55 psi when cold and 45 when hot, and 30-35 at hot idle. Fingers crossed that my workmanship and parts choices are good enough to cover the next 4500 miles of towing out to Yellowstone and back reliably. My goal was to end up with better reliability than when I started, but when I hear horror stories it always makes me bite my nails.
Also, I see that your cam is a 1-bolt cam, so you retained VVT. Makes me wonder if your stalling issue has a similar root cause to the one that guys running the L92 have been reporting for a while, which has 2-3 different potential root causes - one of them being low hot oil pressure not being enough to shift the cam back to idle profile, and another being the printed circuit board on the bottom of the fuse block starting to separate.