ok so the goal is to get the pink wire (factory harness) and the remote (head unit) connected. get yourself a 4-5 inch piece of wire to act as a jumper between the two. the pink wire will already be connected through the harness adaptor. cut that about 2 inches back from where it goes into the adaptor, go ahead and strip and crimp on a butt connector to one piece of the pink wire.. now take one end of the jumper wire along with the other part of the pink, put them both into the butt connector previously attached to the other part of pink wire.. So far you should have your factory harness with pink wire, butt connector, jumper and pink wires in that order. now all you have to do is the same thing as before but with the remote wire coming out of the head unit. so from the headunit it should be remote wire, butt connector, jumper (the one that was spliced with the pink wire) and other half of the remote. Not trying to sound like a jerk but if you want me to draw a picture i will. im not very good with explaining things