I understand that point of view for sure.
I have been pondering this stuff for a while and I think the choices people make probably are driven as much by which set of fears dominate their thinking, as anything else.
Having lived a big chunk of my life off and on in CA and watched the state evolve, I can say with great certainty, the fear of the bureaucrat's jackboot on my windpipe is far greater than the fear of a collapsed AFM lifter. Any choice I made on this front would have to include a non-invasive way back to stock, just knowing that the CARB folks never sleep in their quest to get that jackboot squarely planted on the neck of every citizen in the state (and beyond).
For me here in Idaho, the picture is a little less clear cut for certain, but still, when I ponder the valve train future of my bone stock 2007 Yukon (first get AFM), I do know one option for me when that P0301, 4, 6, 7 pops up is just to install all new OE stuff with all appropriate updates and drive on. I will have gotten 150K+ miles out of the first set of down rev lifters and VLOM. With the same or better maintenance along the way, another 150K+ miles out of the next gen set of AFM lifters might take me all the way to a brand spanking new reman from none other than GM themselves, pretty far down the road...