Yeah, that don't work with this one. She only makes half as much as me, with no drive to do any better. I had picked up a part-time job a while back, doubling my annual income, she asked me if she could stop working. I stupidly agreed to it, and it completely backfired. Told her, that her salary wasn't all that great, I would be making double her salary, and double my own. I had one condition, clean the apartment, and don't ride my arse, if I'm too tired to help much. Her kids are raised, and mine is being raised by her spawn of Satan mother. When the oilfield started getting slow, they cut me loose. My main job doesn't pay for all of the bills we've racked up, and I can't really find or afford another one that might. I need this job for 8 more years so I can keep my good insurance (I was involved in a wreck 5 years ago and fear that switching to another insurance company wouldn't cover pre-existing injuries). I am on permanent light duty, so that cuts out any job that would have me actively on my feet. She was forced to return to work, and that was a good thing. The disaster that befell us when she stopped working, was she got lazy as hell, depressed, did NOT keep up the home, slept all the time or sat around eating junk food, drinking Vodka all day and night, and bitching about being fat.
When I weigh the pros and cons, the cons often out-weigh the pros. Thinking of the peace and quiet, and particularly the extra money that I would have make me seriously consider packing my stuff. As time goes on, I have less of the contents of our trailer to worry about packing, and now I know that I actually have a place to move, that would cost me little to nothing to do so. I guess the biggest thing holding me back, is the fear of the unknown.