Yup, impossibly stupid just 1 cylinder!! And not just the same 1 cylinder every time, it jumps around, but unclear really how random it could be.
I have also seen reference to running on 2 cylinders.
So you tell me what this means "but DFM actively turns off any number of cylinders in a variety of combinations"
There is not as much information out there about 100% how the DFM operates other than is has like 17 different operation modes.
I do know for sure that under DFCO (Decel with Fuel Cutoff) they do seem to shut all cylinders down with DFM, or at least in some order this does occur because I have watch the cylinder deactivation counts.
DFM Operation
DFM Overview