LOL about the oil that is hilarious.. probably 0w20 at that. . . please fire your ‘mechanic’
As far as OP, it is really unfortunate that you’ve let the rah rah get to your head. The failure-per-vehicles-produced ratio is quite low.
But For one thing, there’s no way I would put an 80-90K truck for sale on FBMP or Craigslist in particular. Some might disagree fine, but truth is any vehicle transaction over 20K has no business being done private party imo for a plethora of reasons. Sell it outright to a dealer, carmax, carvana, or some legit company that actually has the funds to back the check they cut you.
I don’t have the luxury of saying nah, i don’t want it anymore after spending 100k on a truck, but if i was in your shoes, maybe I’d sell it and then go get a Tahoe with the diesel.