Sorry 99 I have been to that but I am still trying to do it without dual relays. Thanks any other ones you might have seen.
Retorq, most used for lighting specifically to act as decribed by california vehicle code like headlights must be on to allow foglight use kind of stuff. But still reset each power off cycle. Some others I am still dreaming up.
Jaycenk, I am still searching thru Mouser as well. Been at it for days now.
The idea is to have something like the under hood power box that has a power feed, fusing and control relays. Part of my plan includes a bulkhead connector from painless that has 22 terminals to handle up to 12ga. 20 amp max each so beside relay control circuits some alarm related circuits will be there too. To move high amps into the cab for high power alarm circuits and my 5-channel amplifier Painless has some bulkhead pass-thru posts that are rated for 225A. I am also debating an in cab inverter that would definitely need a automated relay so I could not leave it on by accident.
Being an aircraft mech I think like aircraft systems do so this is why I am putting so much development time and ideas into it.