do you have a recommendation for a Sheep cut out electronic and expensive cut out?
I've found that you get what you pay for. For the cheap ones, they're pretty much all the same Chinese junk and you can just take your pick. The expensive ones (Quicktime, Doug's Headers, etc.) are known to seal better and have better quality motor drives, especially the Doug's due to the design. For the cheaper ones, replacement motor/gear drives are cheap and easy to swap. They're just repurposed power window drives.
If it were me, I'd get a standard 3" DIY cutout mount (like
this) and weld that to the stock 3.5" pipe. This would eliminate cutting out a section of the stock pipe and welding in a smaller diameter section (unless you bought a 3.5" cutout Y). Then, you could bolt on whatever 3" electric cutout (more common and cheaper size than 3.5") you want. If it fails, Amazon Prime or eBay yourself another $30-$50 one.